Give Up Now! If They did not Respect You

I want to share my experience when I was working for the first time. It may be very beneficial for you who still feel uncomfortable at your workplace or easily get stress from your work. At first, I felt that. Every time I woke up in the morning and had to go to work, my body was like refusing it. My eyes were really hard to open. But because of my responsibility, I insisted my body to go to work. I know, it was really hard. It seems that your heart did not fit at your workplace. If you feel what I felt at that time, you must resign from your work like right now! I had best reasons that support me to find another job. They are because I do not feel happy, I do not feel healthy, I do not have me-time, and I feel betrayed.

              First of all, if you want to find a job, try to find one that makes you comfortable. When I was still working as an administrative staff, I did not like the job. All I did was just control the invoices of many hospitals. The job is simple but there is so many job desk. Everyone can do what I did, but with many amounts of hospital that have to controlled, it became stressful.  Moreover, the supervisors, clients and my boss gave me a lot of pressure. Honestly, they are kind outside of working areas, but when it related to the job, they are so mean. Maybe because it was my first time in a work place, so I thought it was normal that they acted like that. However, I felt annoy all the time and I realized that I did not happy.

              If you are not happy, it will effect for your health. Seriously, I felt that. Because I easily got mad and stress, I felt my body did not strong as before. My face was dull and tired all the time. Every time I went back at home, I just slept. I did not do anything else. When Sunday came, I slept all day long. I did not have a time to work out, because I was tired all the time. Until one day, I got sick. I had a fever and had to stay off from work for 3 days.

              Not only I did not have time to work out but also I lost my me-time. I worked six days per a week and I spent more than 8 hours in the office. I spent my life in the office and it was the saddest thing that happened in my life. I did not have time with my family and my friends. I felt so alone at that time and I did not have time to do my hobbies. It makes me sick. My energy is taken by the company. I did not blame the company, but I did blame myself for still give my contribution for them for a year.

              What makes me believe that I have to find another job is that I feel that they betrayed me. I felt that I was treated different from any employees. It is like I did not deserve the bonus because my performance in working was not really good for them. However, I had tried my best in doing my work, but they did not appreciate for what I did. Therefore, I really could not forget that.

              Therefore, if you have the same experience like me, just quit already. You have something better to do than just working for someone else you don’t know.  Now, I have a new work place, and I feel very happy at my workplace. I have a lot of time for myself since I only work 5 days per a week. Moreover, I have many nice friends in here.  I feel healthy inside and outside. I enjoy for my job and I think you deserve better.